2. DON’T DEMAND HIM TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU: If he has been spending less time with you, complaining about it will not make him get close to you. Instead, entice him, make him warm up to you. Be inviting.
3. DON’T REJECT HIS SEXUAL ADVANCES: Don’t be someone who turns him down repeatedly then want him to jump to sex when you want.
4. BE EASY TO TALK TO: Be approachable, less reactionary and less dramatic. When a man feels he is walking on egg shells around you, intimacy will be affected negatively.
5. PRAISE HIM: Tell of the good things about him. Notice his strengths. Don’t be the wife who complains more than she appreciates.
6. FLIRT WITH HIM: Be naughty. Initiate flirting. Call him all manner of names, “Sexy”, “I want your large tool inside of me”, “I want you to eat me up”
7. FIND OUT HIS SENSUAL AREAS AND TOUCH THEM: Is it the nipples, his balls, scalp, back, lips, ears, neck? What area gets him turned on. Touch there!
8. BRAG ABOUT HIS SEXUAL POWER: Tell him the sexual things he does that you love. Is it the way he uses his tongue, his chest, how he does doggy style, how he sounds when he climaxes, how he goes deep inside you, how he sucks your nipples? What do you love him doing? Tell him. It boosts his confidence.
9. TELL HIM YOU ARE WET: Tell him when you are horny. Let him know when you want some drip. Be romantic about it.
10. DRESS SUGGESTIVELY: Wear lingerie, revealing clothes, or be naked in front of him. Give him a view he cannot resist. Know how to accentuate your body.
11. SIT ON HIM: Sit on him if you can. Be the playful lady in his arms. Make him feel powerful.
12. TOUCH HIS PENIS UNAPOLOGETICALLY: Grab it and play with it. Especially the lower tip of the penis.
13. TELL HIM THE SEXUAL STUFF YOU WANT TO DO TO HIM: Communicate a preview of the sexual things you want to do with him. Prepare his mind.
14. RIDE HIM: Push him to the bed or floor, remove his pants, take charge, sit on him and give him a good ride.
