What you don’t know about the Yoruba people– Azuka Onwuka
Embracing Cultural Differences in Mourning and Celebrations
The manner in which mourning is conducted in various cultures can speak volumes about their values and traditions. For instance, I have come to appreciate the Yoruba customs surrounding the burial of young individuals. Similar to the Edo traditions, these ceremonies are marked by a notable absence of feasting, drinking, and music, which stands in stark contrast to some other cultures where such practices are common, even at the funerals of younger individuals. This cultural approach was notably highlighted when people reacted strongly to the festive atmosphere at the funeral of Junior Pope, the actor who recently passed away. While the family’s intentions might have been to honor their guests, the celebratory mood did not seem fitting for the occasion.
Changing long-standing traditions is challenging but not impossible. In Igbo land, the influence of churches and family groups (umunna) is substantial. If churches begin to advocate for more somber funeral practices and enforce these through family groups, a cultural shift could occur.
Event Organization and Guest Comfort
Another aspect I admire about the Yoruba is their meticulous approach to organizing events. Regardless of the event’s scale, guests are always provided with tables, avoiding the awkwardness of holding food and drinks in their laps or on the floor. Professional event planners are often hired, ensuring a seamless experience, even for small gatherings like naming ceremonies. This contrasts with the Igbo practice of relying on family and friends, which can sometimes result in less organized events. Moreover, at Yoruba events, guests are immediately offered refreshments upon arrival, a stark difference from Igbo events where food and drinks are often served much later, sometimes after guests have grown tired and hungry.
Cultural Attire and Church Attendance
In Yoruba land, attending a wedding service is considered a significant part of the celebration, with churches often filled to capacity. This is quite different from Igbo land, where church services tend to be sparsely attended, with most guests preferring the reception. Additionally, traditional attire is the norm for various events in Yoruba culture, including church services, weddings, and funerals, whereas in Igbo culture, more casual attire such as jeans and T-shirts is commonly accepted.
Balancing Work and Leisure
The Yoruba people also seem to have mastered the art of balancing work with leisure. Unlike the Igbo, who often immerse themselves in continuous work and multiple projects, frequently traveling between their base and hometown, the Yoruba prioritize relaxation and holidays. This balanced lifestyle can offer valuable lessons in managing stress and enjoying life’s moments.
Conclusion
Every ethnic group has its unique traditions and practices, each with its own inherent value. No single culture is superior to another, but there is much we can learn from one another. Just as I have gleaned valuable insights from Yoruba customs, there are certainly aspects of Igbo culture that a Yoruba person could appreciate and learn from.
